and could place what he saw and heard in a broader context, weighing its significance, meaning and likely result.
I admired him for this. But my real admiration came when the tide of media affection turned and I suddenly became the bête noire of reporters. The watershed moment took place in October 1979, when I and my organisation, Inkatha yeNkululeko yeSizwe, travelled to London to meet with the anc's leadership-in-exile.
Inkatha was little more than a front for the anc, within South Africa, where the anc was banned. But we began to find ideological differences with the anc when it took the decision to abandon the principle of non-violence which had been laid at the foundation of the liberation struggle by my own uncle, Dr Pixley ka Isaka Seme, when he founded the anc in 1912.
Inkatha could not support the use of violence as a political tool. Neither could we support the call for international sanctions and disinvestment from South Africa, for we sought to protect the economy we would all inherit once liberation was achieved.
Inkatha and the anc met in London and discussed these differences for two and a half days, without finding agreement. We left with the commitment to continue talks. But immediately the anc's leadership-in-exile issued a statement denying that the meeting had ever taken place, and shortly thereafter the sluice gates of propaganda were opened against me and Inkatha.
It was felt that I was failing to toe the line, and considering the massive support I had gained, there was a need to vilify me and destroy my influence. Decades later, in 2002, Nelson Mandela spoke candidly about their strategy in a recorded interview. He said, ‘We used every ammunition to destroy (Buthelezi), but we failed. And he is still there. He is a formidable survivor. We cannot ignore him.’
The weapon of lies that was employed against me did tremendous damage. Rather than destroying support for my leadership, it pitted my supporters against supporters of the anc. When the anc began targeting Inkatha in their strategy of people's war, black-on-black violence erupted. It devastated our people.
I continued to call for peace, and no retaliation, even as our people were slaughtered. But the bloodshed and the accompanying pro-